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Hello and welcome, I’m Ajal Mary Theodorah, an agriculturalist, urban small-space gardener, and author of the children’s book Harvesting Honey with Grand Pa. Beyond my love for nature and storytelling, I am a passionate advocate for grief awareness and support for anyone navigating life after loss, whether through the death of a loved one, divorce, or separation.
I am not a therapist or counsellor, but I share my grief journey, the lessons, reflections, and hope that emerged from my story to help others feel seen, supported, and understood in theirs. My own grief journey began early: at just six years old, I witnessed my parents’ separation, and by eight, my father died. As an adult, I’ve learned that healing is continuous and grief is ever-evolving.
I hold an MSc in Sustainable Food Systems from the Swedish University of Agricultural Sciences and a BSc in Agricultural Sciences and Entrepreneurship from Uganda Christian University. In 2023, I began sharing my grief journey on my personal YouTube channel. By 2025, I created Through the Tunnel of Grief: a dedicated space and YouTube channel to inspire, inform, and encourage anyone walking through loss of any kind.
Here, you’ll find stories, conversations, and resources that remind you: You are not alone in your grief. Healing takes time, but together, we can walk through the tunnel and find light on the other side.
I am a Ugandan currently living in the Netherlands with my husband and our two daughters.
You are warmly welcome here.
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Grief from Loss of A Loved One
Gain insights on practical ways to cope with grief, support a grieving loved one, and guide children through loss. here!
Divorce & Separation
Learn from my journey as an adult child of divorce: discovering how to support children and heal wounds of fatherlessness here!
To Share your Story
You have an opportunity to share your story with all who are grieving to encourage them, inspire them through your experiences, what has worked well for you, advise and lessons learnt in your grief Journey.
Through The Tunnel Of Grief 